There is no other way of getting your dates better then by having conversations with them. However, it is not a simple task to choose the right topics to discuss on the first date. A great help will play the answer to the question: what do you really want to know about the person you go on a date with? In case you are interested in what you hear as the answers, you can plan a second date.
An unspoken general rule on the first date is not touching upon the past. Instead of this, you better focus on learning more about each other and not about past experiences and relationships. (more…)